Homeschool
Criticisms of Homeschooling That You Will Get!
Thinking about homeschooling? Here’s a look at the most common criticisms you’ll hear—and how to confidently respond to them.
While homeschooling might be the perfect choice for your family, it’s no secret that this decision often brings along a healthy dose of criticism. Whether you’re new to homeschooling or a seasoned pro, you’ll likely face some version of the same old concerns—sometimes voiced by family, friends, the media, or even politicians.
Let’s be honest: schooling is still considered the “default” in many societies. People are often quick to challenge anything that doesn’t fit that traditional mould. So what exactly are they saying?
One of the most common criticisms you’ll hear is: But what about socialisation? This is the classic concern that homeschooled children will grow up to be awkward, shy, or somehow “weird.” But let’s debunk that right now. Socialisation doesn’t just happen in classrooms. In fact, homeschooling often allows for more meaningful social interaction—through clubs, sports, community groups, co-ops, volunteering, and simply spending time in the real world. Homeschooled children learn to engage with people of all ages, not just a class of peers the same age. The idea that school is the only place to make friends is outdated—and simply not true.
You may also hear concerns about the quality of education, structure, or “missing out” on the school experience. But as a homeschooling consultant, I can assure you that with a thoughtful approach and the right resources, homeschooled children often thrive academically. You can tailor learning to your child’s pace and interests, and that flexibility is something many traditional classrooms just can’t offer.
So how do you handle these criticisms—especially when they come from loved ones?
First, remember that most people are coming from a place of care, even if their comments don’t always sound that way. Be patient. Share your reasons for homeschooling and the positives you’ve seen so far. Sometimes, it’s helpful to show rather than tell—share your child’s progress, invite them to a project day, or let them witness the joy of a real-life learning moment.
You don’t have to convince everyone, and you definitely don’t have to defend your every decision. But by being open, respectful, and confident in your choice, you can turn criticism into conversation—and maybe even change a few minds along the way.